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<\/p>\nOnline dating is frying my brain. I\u2019m having too many bad or weird experiences.<\/p>\n
I thought that hooking up with sexy strangers would be a breeze but it\u2019s like the Wild West out there. I\u2019m single after a six-year intense, complicated relationship. I felt like a bird released the day my controlling ex finally walked away.<\/p>\n
But it feels as though I\u2019ve jumped straight out of a frying pan into a raging furnace. One guy sat down and asked me how much my flat is worth. Then he said that if we \u201cgot serious\u201d he\u2019d expect me to sign over half of my assets to him.<\/p>\n
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Another wept while he described how much he still loved his ex-wife, while a third suggested we get matching tattoos \u2013 on our backsides.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve been offered kinky sex, drugs, and stolen goods. One chancer wanted to run \u00a310,000 through my bank account. In each case I finished my wine, made my excuses, and fled. I\u2019ve been told I\u2019m too old, too young, too thin, and too fat.<\/p>\n
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One fella seemed nice but then let himself down at the last hurdle when the bill arrived for our pizza, and he deliberately placed a hair in his coffee to get out of paying.<\/p>\n
So many guys simply assume they\u2019re fully entitled to any kind of sex because I\u2019m single and, ergo, desperate and grateful. When did dating get so sleazy and so tricky? And how am I ever going to find anyone special in this cattle market?<\/p>\n
Caring friends tell me that I have to stick at it because I\u2019ll find that special person in the end. Will I? Admittedly, plenty of mates have found love online.<\/p>\n
My ex-boss is just about to marry a wonderful man she met through an agency. But I feel lost and more than a little terrified.<\/p>\n
JANE SAYS: You have to maintain your standards and believe in who you are.<\/i> <\/b><\/p>\n
It may well be that you\u2019ll have to endure a few more bores before you find your prince.<\/i> <\/b><\/p>\n
Calm down and accept that there is no rush. You have all the time in the world to find the right person in the right set of circumstances.<\/i> <\/b><\/p>\n
Everything must be conducted on your terms within your comfort zone.<\/i> <\/b><\/p>\n
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If you don\u2019t like the way things are headed in any given situation, then get out. Learn to look out for the losers and I\u2019m hopeful you will find a good guy in the end.<\/i> <\/b><\/p>\n
Sadly, I hear complaints like yours from many people \u2013 women and men \u2013 who are looking for a love the second or third time around.<\/i> <\/b><\/p>\n
Regretfully, some individuals have unrealistic expectations and wish lists, but you can\u2019t compromise yourself.<\/i> <\/b><\/p>\n
Why not try to go back to the old-fashioned way of meeting someone? Ask friends, neighbours, colleagues to introduce you to any single guys they know.<\/i> <\/b><\/p>\n
Don\u2019t forget that you\u2019re freshly out of an unhappy relationship with your ex, so be kind to yourself. Give yourself time to heal<\/i><\/b>.<\/i> <\/b><\/p>\nJoin the Daily Star's WhatsApp for the sexiest headlines, showbiz gossip and lots more<\/h3>\n
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