{"id":84328,"date":"2023-11-15T18:44:56","date_gmt":"2023-11-15T18:44:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/happylifestyleinc.com\/?p=84328"},"modified":"2023-11-15T18:44:56","modified_gmt":"2023-11-15T18:44:56","slug":"ive-been-a-bridesmaid-12-times-but-froze-my-eggs-as-im-single-myself-ive-had-to-cancel-vacations-to-pay-for-weddings-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happylifestyleinc.com\/fashion\/ive-been-a-bridesmaid-12-times-but-froze-my-eggs-as-im-single-myself-ive-had-to-cancel-vacations-to-pay-for-weddings-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"I've been a bridesmaid 12 times but froze my eggs as I'm single myself, I've had to cancel vacations to pay for weddings | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

A PERPETUAL bridesmaid has been living out the real-life version of 27 Dresses.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s been a bridesmaid 12 times and, despite forking out a total of $10,000 on other people's weddings, she thinks it is \u201can honor\u201d to be one.<\/p>\n


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Although Bridget Herrmann, 40, has not yet tied the knot herself, she\u2019s walked down the aisle 12 times \u2013\u00a0as a bridesmaid.<\/p>\n

And she has the dresses to prove it.<\/p>\n

Bridget calls it "an honor" to be in the wedding party, and insists that she\u2019ll never say no, meaning she likely has another bridesmaid ask coming her way.<\/p>\n

So that means more spending.<\/p>\n

Adding up the cost of a dress, alterations, flights, the bridal shower, gifts, and hotel, she has spent upwards of $2,000 as a bridesmaid at a single wedding.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s also spent as little as $500 on others.<\/p>\n

Bridget estimates she has forked over $10,000 total being a bridesmaid 12 times \u2013\u00a0for high school friends, her sister, her cousin, and college friends.<\/p>\n

But the Chicago, Illinois, local doesn\u2019t regret a single one.<\/p>\n

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\u201cI absolutely love it. I\u2019d never tell someone no. I love doing it. Maybe that\u2019s just in my nature but I feel it is such an honor,\u201d she said in an exclusive interview.<\/p>\n

Her debut experience came in October of 2006, when she wore a sage green, strapless, satin dress.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe first time I got asked to be a bridesmaid was pretty exciting,\u201d she remembers.<\/p>\n

For the 11 other weddings, Bridget has worn everything from a simple short navy dress that she called \u201creally beautiful,\u201d to a big gown with a petticoat.<\/p>\n

\u201cI ripped out the petticoat after the ceremony and put on sneakers.<\/p>\n

\u201cI wasn't a fan of the really big dress. It had a pickup in the skirt and a corset back and layers of petticoats,\u201d she admits.<\/p>\n

Luckily, she\u2019s gotten a few re-wears out of the navy mini.<\/p>\n


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Still, she says for the most part she\u2019s liked all her looks.<\/p>\n

\u201cOut of the 12, I've maybe had two that I haven't been crazy about. They haven't been terrible."<\/p>\n

As for her one of her favorite gowns, that\u2019s one she picked out herself.<\/p>\n

\u201cOne bride wanted everyone in black and let us pick our own dress. I ended up loving that one."<\/p>\n

She currently has three of the dresses in her closest \u2013 all from her most recent weddings \u2013\u00a0and has donated many of the others to girls who can\u2019t afford a prom dress.<\/p>\n

At 5-foot-1 inch, Bridget said the alterations are often a costly part of being a bridesmaid.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s extremely expensive to have alterations. I\u2019ve paid $200 for a dress, and the alterations have come out to $400.\u201d<\/p>\n

She used to have her own seamstress when she was living in New York who would alter all her dresses.<\/p>\n

\u201cI would go to her with a dress, and she\u2019d say, \u2018Oh Bridget again.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n

Bridget believes she has been a bridesmaid so much due to keeping in touch with her circle of friends from high school and college, as well as meeting others along the way.<\/p>\n

She was once a bridesmaid three times in one year, but has not taken on the role since May of 2022.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s when she was a bridesmaid due to being friends with the groom, and even went on the boys\u2019 trip.<\/p>\n

\u201cI went to Vegas with guys. That was fun.\u201d<\/p>\n

But the costs added up.<\/p>\n

The bachelorette in Las Vegas, the wedding in Napa, and the dress saw Bridget spend upwards of $1,500 \u2013 meaning she put a hold on her plans for a vacation in Italy.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe wedding was in Napa. The flights, hotels, all kinds of things \u2013 it becomes really expensive.\u201d<\/p>\n

The radio promoter thinks the price of a wedding has increased over the last two decades due to the \u201cculture\u201d \u2013 where you once paid very little for a dress, bridal shower, and a gift, now you have to cover the cost of destination trips.<\/p>\n

She says strangers are often shocked to find out how many times she has been a bridesmaid, but it\u2019s not something she plans to stop doing.<\/p>\n

\u201cThey think that highly of you, that you played a role in their life to ask you. It\u2019s the biggest honor.<\/p>\n

\u201cI feel I\u2019m not quite done yet but if I never get asked again, I\u2019d still be happy with that.\u201d<\/p>\n

She calls her experiences wonderful and says she likes to be there for friends.<\/p>\n

\u201cI love being a bridesmaid because I love helping people.<\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t want anyone to think, \u2018She\u2019s done it 12 times and it won\u2019t be special when she is my bridesmaid.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n

Bridget still hopes to find her own groom and have children \u2013 and decided to freeze her eggs three years ago believing her time will come.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve not met the right person. I\u2019m a big believer that I\u2019m meant to be a wife and a mother. I have faith it will happen to me.<\/p>\n

\u201cI love weddings.\u201d<\/p>\n

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As for what her own wedding party will look like when the time comes, she\u2019s thinking about doing what Katherine Heigl's character, Jane Nicholas, does in the film 27 Dresses \u2013\u00a0inviting all the brides she has been a bridesmaid for.<\/p>\n

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