{"id":82374,"date":"2023-08-26T21:38:59","date_gmt":"2023-08-26T21:38:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/happylifestyleinc.com\/?p=82374"},"modified":"2023-08-26T21:38:59","modified_gmt":"2023-08-26T21:38:59","slug":"my-wife-flirts-with-other-men-now-shes-had-boob-job-and-its-turned-me-off-her-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happylifestyleinc.com\/lifestyle\/my-wife-flirts-with-other-men-now-shes-had-boob-job-and-its-turned-me-off-her-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My wife flirts with other men now she's had boob job and it's turned me off her | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my wife but since she had a boob job I\u2019ve gone right off her.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m 32, she is 36 and we have been married for five years. <\/p>\n

When we met she was very reserved and rather self-conscious about her breasts.<\/p>\n

To me she was irresistible and her A-cup breasts didn\u2019t bother me.<\/p>\n

But no matter how much I complimented her, she wouldn\u2019t accept her chest size wasn\u2019t a problem.<\/p>\n

I thought she would get over it but she remained critical of her looks and saved up for a boob job.<\/p>\n

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Although I didn\u2019t understand my wife\u2019s hang-ups about her body, I supported her decision the best I could.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s been eight weeks since she had the procedure and she is now a 34 DD.<\/p>\n

I can honestly say my wife is a lot happier. <\/p>\n

She\u2019s a different person. And I\u2019m not sure I like it.<\/p>\n

I knew the procedure would boost her low self-esteem, but now her confidence is through the roof.<\/p>\n

She keeps wearing skimpy tops and flirting with waiters when we\u2019re out and I feel quite disrespected by her need to flaunt her new breasts.<\/p>\n

To make matters worse she\u2019s thinking of having further surgery to enlarge her breasts to an EE cup.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s quite dainty and I\u2019ve told her she would look ridiculous. <\/p>\n

As her husband I should have a say but she shuts me down. We had a massive row and now she refuses to speak to me.<\/p>\n

I really don\u2019t want to lose my wife. But how can I make her see sense over this, and save our marriage?<\/p>\n

DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>I understand your wishes to be involved in her surgery decision and generally it is always good to come to an agreement together on the big decisions in any marriage. <\/p>\n

But when it comes to such personal matters \u2013 although you might not agree \u2013 it is her body and ultimately her choice.<\/p>\n

If you truly want to save your marriage I would advise that you be the supportive husband she needs as she works through her body- confidence issues.<\/p>\n

You can let her know you are pleased she feels more confident but ask her to be mindful of your feelings. <\/p>\n

No matter what her cup size, her focus should be on your marriage, not garnering attention from strangers.<\/p>\n

My support packs called How To Look After Your Relationship and Unhappy With Your Breasts? will help you approach the conversation with the sensitivity needed here.<\/p>\n

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