I started talking before I opened the door to give him time to switch off if my guess was right, but was annoyed that I felt I had to do that.
We have been together for eight years. My partner is 40, I am 39. I have been noticing that he shuts down his laptop if he thinks I am near.
I tackled him a couple of days ago and thought I would feel better when I had mentioned it but I don’t. There is just an embarrassing silence around the issue.
DEIDRE SAYS: Most men watch some porn at some time but, as long as it’s not anything illegal, whether it’s a problem is down to how much and if it interferes with real-life relationships.
If you want him to cut down, you’ll have to raise the subject.
Make it clear what you object to. Is it the thought of him neglecting sex with you, feeling less attractive than the women in the videos or the exploitation of women?
My e-leaflet Worried About Pornography? will help, too.
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