DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER years of fantasising about trans women, I now want to find one to have a proper, loving relationship with.
Other women don’t really turn me on, but I have no idea how to find a trans woman.
I’ve always thought of myself as a straight man.
I’m 43 and have had several relationships with women, including a short marriage.
I’ve had one brief sexual encounter with a trans woman.
Part of me hoped the attraction would go away on its own, but it never has.
Now I’ve come to the conclusion that I need to explore it – not just by looking at porn or pictures online.
Is there anything wrong with this? Should I try to get help?
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DEIDRE SAYS: There’s nothing wrong with being attracted to trans women.
It’s just a taste, like any other. But do try not to fetishise them as a “type” of person.
Remember, everyone is an individual, regardless of their gender or sexuality.
There are transgender dating sites online, so check these out.
If you’re worried about your feelings or why you have them, talk with a counsellor from the College Of Sexual And Relationship Therapists (cosrt.org.uk, 020 8106 9635).
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