I have completely lost my sex drive and can’t get an erection any more

DEAR DEIDRE: I SEEM to have completely lost my sex drive and can’t get an erection any more.

My wife and I are in our sixties and have been married for 40 years. We used to have a good sex life, so the present situation is particularly distressing for us.

When I try to have sex with her now, it’s like I freeze and nothing happens.

It’s miserable for both of us and we end up frustrated.

I know there is Viagra but what I would really like is for sex together to be natural, not governed by a pill.

I feel there must be something I can do rather than just giving up on sex altogether.

DEIDRE SAYS: It is vital you see your GP, as losing your sex drive and the ability to have erections could be flagging up a health problem you need to get checked out, such as heart trouble.

My e-leaflet Worried You’re Past It, Guys? explains self-help sex therapy you can try.

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