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DEAR DEIDRE: WATCHING my wife have sex with her brother-in-law is my big fantasy. I love the idea of being a cuckold.

Every night, I lie in bed thinking about this, and I’m trying to pluck up the courage to ask her to do it, but I don’t know how she’ll react.

I’m 37 and my wife is 36. We’ve been married for six years.

Her brother-in-law, who is married to her younger sister, is 32.

Whenever we meet, I’ve noticed there is sexual chemistry between them. She has always said how nice he is, and he is just her type — tall, with dark eyes and wavy brown hair.

Last Christmas, when they both got drunk, they were clearly flirting. He even put his hand on the small of her back in a very affectionate way and she didn’t object.

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I pretended not to notice. But to my surprise, rather than making me angry or jealous, it turned me on.

That’s when I started imagining watching them have sex.

Soon, we’re going to visit her sister and brother-in-law about 100 miles away. We’re staying for the weekend, and this would be the perfect opportunity to put my plan into action.

My idea is that my wife will arrange to meet her brother-in-law in the hall in the middle of the night.

Then she will lure him into our bedroom. I will be sitting in the chair at the end of the bed waiting to witness their lovemaking.

They will start to have sex in front of me. I may even lie down next to them, although I won’t take part.

What’s the best way to ask my wife to do this?


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DEIDRE SAYS: Sometimes we have strong fantasies that seem particularly exciting because they’re so taboo.

But in reality, you might not enjoy seeing your wife have sex with another man – it could leave you jealous and upset. Not to mention that you haven’t spoken to your wife about this and have no idea how she would feel.

And what about her brother-in-law and her sister, who are likely to be shocked by this idea?

The truth is, it could ruin several relationships and marriages. My Sexual Fantasies support pack explains more.

Enjoy your fantasy, but do think carefully before trying to enact it.
Instead, talk to your wife about what turns you on.

If you want to feel cuckolded, perhaps there are other ways you can incorporate this into your sex life – by simply talking about it for example.

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